Changing to Better.
I have no idea why I have an urge to change things this year. I just felt like changing this and that. I’ve changed my perspective in life, in r’ship, my MSN and now my blog. I want to change my hairstyle and I want to change to be a better person. What else? Hmm, let’s see then.
I remembered that I was distressed between mid of 2006 to end of 2007, so many bad things happened to me continuously, and I had lose my faith and self confidence that time. I couldn’t believe so many unlucky and bad things happened to me that time. I couldn’t take it. I had broken down and cried so many times. I had always weep to my bedtimes.
It was not easy for me to overcome those problems. I had negative mindset during that period, which is not good for myself. I’m very grateful that my closest girl friends in uni always support me and show their endless care and encouragement towards me. Soon, I’m back to normal, cheerful and positive person that I’ve always been.
I understand that life is always full of ups and downs, it depends on you how do you look at those problems and how do you overcome those obstacles and yes! there are always obstacles in our life. Sometimes you just have to view it at a different angle and you’ll get a different perspective. Look at a problem in different angles, not just one! Take the bad things that happened to us as a lesson, a lesson which makes us grow, grow to a better and more mature person.
We can’t expect all the good things happen to us all the time. It’s important to have positive mindset and self confidence as well so we won’t break down easily and able handle our problems well. Have I grown more mature? Yeah, I think so. A bit…better than none, right? hehe!
Somehow I really dislike those people who love comparing their life with other people’s life when their life is already pretty good. They just don’t know how to treasure it and kept thinking why their life or result can’t be as good as another person. Well, what can I say? Get a life! Everyone is unique. Nobody is perfect. Be thankful and grateful with what you have, don’t be so greedy. I believe 2008 is a better year for me *wink*. And I hope it’s a better year for my *special ones*, my family and my closests friends as well.
